Frequently Asked Questions

What is a Professional Listener and How Can They Help?

A Professional Listener provides a dedicated, private space for you to speak freely and be heard without interruption, judgment, or unsolicited advice. Unlike a psychologist, counselor, or life coach, a Professional Listener does not diagnose, treat, or guide. Instead, they offer objective, attentive listening and emotional support.

Think of it as holding up a mirror so you can hear yourself more clearly. This safe space is yours to explore whatever is on your mind, without pressure, filters, or expectations. Many people find this process helps them feel calmer, more grounded, and less alone.

What Can I Expect from an Online Listening Session?

We meet at the scheduled time by video, phone, or text. I’ll greet you and invite you to begin with an open question such as, “What’s on your mind today?” From there, the conversation is yours to lead. You may arrive with a specific concern or simply let your thoughts unfold as we talk.

If you would like me to reflect back what I’m hearing or offer observations, you can ask — but I will not offer advice unless you request it.

This listening-based support is about being heard and acknowledged in complete confidentiality, not analyzed or judged. At the end of our session, I’ll let you know our time is up and we’ll close together. This service is designed to be simple and accessible — you can book a conversation in just a few clicks.

Why Pay for Listening Instead of Talking to a Friend or Family Member?

Friends and family care about you, but they often bring their own opinions, advice, or emotions into the conversation. They may interrupt, try to solve things, or unintentionally make you feel judged.

Professional listening is different. It’s quiet, steady, and focused entirely on you. No fixing, no pressure, no expectations. It’s the difference between chatting with someone over coffee and stepping into a space designed entirely for you.

What Can We Talk About in a Session?

Anything you want. Truly. There are no off-limits topics. Many clients choose to discuss anxiety, burnout, grief, family estrangement, health issues, or life transitions, but you can also bring concerns that feel unclear or unformed.

This space is yours to explore whatever feels important, knowing it will be met with full attention, understanding, and privacy.

Is It Normal to Feel Uncomfortable Paying Someone to Listen?

Absolutely. Many people wonder why they should pay for something that seems so simple. But in a world where meaningful, undivided attention is rare, having someone be fully present for you is a valuable form of emotional care and self-investment.

Being heard is a basic human need. Choosing to invest in yourself in this way is a sign of self-respect and a step toward greater well-being.

Is Listening Helpful for Anxiety or Chronic Illness?

Yes. Many people I work with live with anxiety, chronic illness, panic attacks, or invisible conditions that can feel isolating — especially when others do not understand or minimize their experiences.

This is a space where you do not have to explain or defend yourself. Whether you want to talk about your health, your emotional state, or something completely different, I will listen without minimizing, rushing, or trying to fix.

Do I Have to Talk on the Phone or Video?

Not at all. Text-based listening sessions are available for anyone who prefers to write rather than speak, or who finds real-time conversation overwhelming.

You choose the format — phone, video, or text — that feels most comfortable for you. My goal is to meet you where you are and provide the listening support you need.

How Do I Book a Session?

Booking is simple. Just head to the Book a Session page, choose the session length that feels right for you, and pick a time that works. Payment is handled securely online through Stripe, so you’re all set before we meet.

What If I’m Not Sure This Is Right for Me?

That’s completely okay. Many people feel uncertain at first. You’re welcome to try a first-time session at a reduced rate — it’s a no-pressure way to experience what it feels like to be deeply heard before deciding on ongoing sessions.